She has 30 years experience counseling individuals and couples to help them find and maintain romance in their life. All of them like to know women are interested, but then they want to set the pace of the relationship. You have to find a common ground that works with each other.
So I guess opposites attract, or I just enjoy the awkward interactions/comical antics of doing activities with someone much taller than I? Standing out (physically) my whole life has led me to be much more confident and fearless of being different. There are definitely a lot of great guys who only see six feet as one small part of who I am.To put it bluntly, a guy’s first interest in a woman has nothing to do with the handbag she’s carrying or that she graduated from an Ivy League school.What your (potential) man wants you to know but won’t tell you is that his initial attraction is all about your appearance and physical being, which sends a flood of highly charged testosterone racing through his veins.There’s a big misperception that men never want to be in committed relationships if we can help it, and that we prefer to have the freedom to date a harem of women. We want to be in a committed relationship, but it has to be with the right woman at the right time. Men don’t want to feel like they’re being hooked, especially in the beginning of a relationship.This has something to do with our innate desire for freedom and our need to feel like we’re in control.So don’t judge what follows as being politically incorrect or rude. I’m not saying that we need to get into your pants right away in order to enjoy your company.